If you have been trying for a substantial period of time
(let's say for about two years), but still cannot find a
relationship or when you think you found one it somehow falls
apart, then we have a bad news for you. You are likely to have
one of the following problems:
- you are a selfish jerk who only looks out for
him/herself;
- you are a spoiled brat who is used to receiving a lot of
love and attention and who is used to people doing things for
him/her;
- you lack empathy and might even enjoy hurting others,
perhaps as a result of an abuse or neglect experienced in
childhood;
- you disrespect and neglect others while demanding a lot of
attention and care for yourself;
- you are bitter and unforgiving and keep count of every
little thing;
- you think way too much of yourself so that it is extremely
difficult to satisfy your standards;
- you systematically evaluate your partner as one would
evaluate an athlete (by a set of specific parameters), thus
not allowing for sins and flaws of a real person.
If any of this sounds like it may apply to you, then you
have some serious work to do. Let's call things what they are,
you are not a nice person or you've got some bad character
problems (unkind, unfriendly, unforgiving, angry, etc.) and
you will have to work your butt off to change that.
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I met this really beautiful girl...
Buckle up for this
one. If you've done that sort of thing before, we have no
mercy for you.
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More advice from Paris
If you are in the process of getting dating skills, listen
to the French, they are great at sex, food and fashion.
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Are the two of you compatible?
Find out what the stars say.
